“To my fellow warriors and our fearless guide. What a gift this is not only to us, but the worlds we travel in! Bringing that loving, big ball energy!! Wild & Free 🦅

I was journeying to reclaim and heal the masculine within myself when I came across Bas and his work.

Even though I had plenty of hesitations about spending money and time on myself and committing to something “disruptive,” I am so glad I released those ‘protectors’ and dove in – head/heart/balls first. 

My experience in this skillfully crafted, humble container was a deeper self-embodiment facilitated by exquisitely curated material–born not solely from books and training but from Bas’ personal journey of healing the masculine/feminine. (Men who have done their own work are trustworthy.)

I am forever grateful to have given my energy and space to Bas and a cohort of intrepid men. Together, we re-membered and have begun integrating the holy triad of masculinity: head/heart/balls. Together, we awakened and transformed. 

I bow to your skill and experience, Bas. And I honor the men who opened themselves up so the wisdom of the collective could be received and felt. What a gift to have this community to walk forward with.”

Doing the Trinitas program was transformational. Having done all sorts of modalities of personal development, I was absolutely humbled by the power of a group of open hearted men coming together. It was this beautiful synchronicity of helping and being helped from this new found brotherhood. Can’t recommend it enough!

When you have the feeling that this world is missing real men, those whole men, with their hearts wide open, their brains sharpened and wise, and their balls working together with their hearts – you may want to join this program.

You will get to know your Wild Man, Lover, Warrior, King, Jester, Visionary, and Mystic and finally collect the lost parts of your being. A journey through your body and mind, heart and soul. 

A safe place to share and grow together. Memories and new friends you will never forget.

TRINITAS will change you for the better, it will help you define your masculine essence and make the best out of yourself.

“I am so grateful to have had the ability to be in TRINITAS and also work one on one with Bas in his VIP package.

I’ve struggled my entire life with how to figure out my masculine expression and to feel safe with male friends.

This group was an amazing place to do the work of deconstructing toxic patterns and building up my confidence to express my masculinity in a connected and healthy way, under the powerful guidance of Bas.

I know the tools I have now are going to be a great support for the rest of my life and I look forward to deepening the bonds of brotherhood with my fellow participants beyond the container.

The 1:1 support in the VIP was very supportive. Bas has a beautiful ability to create a safe space to express and heal.

I cannot recommend working with him enough. If you are ready to face yourself and heal in a healthy masculine container, this is a great place for it.

Thanks Bas for being who you are and bringing this beautiful gift to the world.”

“My beloved just completed Trinitas and I felt inspired to write a testimonial from my heart.

This program and Bas’s energy has deeply affected our relationship.

My beloved is an amazing man that is truly committed to his own healing and was a perfect match for this program. During this experience, I have witnessed my man transform into new levels of self-leadership, confidence, and vulnerability.

He has always shown up so powerfully in our union and now his energy is even more potent and I’m able to drop even deeper into my feminine. There were intense moments of alchemy where we were so grateful to lean into Bas’s support. His energy really assisted us in coming back into connection. Having that external resourcing from a man we could both trust to have our best interests was so incredibly healing for me and I wasn’t even in the program.

As a family scapegoat, I had to work through my own fears/projections of Bas judging me when my partner and I would be in disconnection and he would lean into Bas for support. I was always relieved to hear the way Bas would offer loving reflections for both of us without an ounce of shame or judgement.

I just had to share!

This is a man you can trust to assist you and your partner in building intimacy, grounding in truth, and bringing divinity into your union. If you’re on the fence, let this be your sign.

♥️ All my love.

“This has been one of the best experiences I have ever had.

In the programs I have done to this point, there was overbearing masculinity and not enough understanding of how us men need to be fluent in our own masculinity to align with the beauty of the feminine. I joined this group because I felt that in your words. Through these last couple of months, I have experienced a new outlook on making my masculinity safe. Through learning the different archetypes I have come to realize that I truly am a warrior king. That masculinity is not bad and not abusive in and of itself but is beautiful. You have given me new tools and I am forever grateful.”

“What does it mean to align one’s head, heart and balls? I knew that this was missing within—the connection between all the three. The weaving together and alchemizing a lifetime of guilt, shame, and capitulation; the feeling of being unworthy, caught in the role of the nice sweet lovable guy. Afraid of my Wild Man and Warrior.

The genius of Bas is the thoughtfulness and safe container of TRINITAS he co-created along with us. He shows the path on our journey as men to lead with our heart and where to find our King. 

The King that is now here within me. In my head, heart and cojones.”

“Trinitas was a seismic shift in my life. Bas led with unmatched prowess, creating a haven where every man felt seen and understood. Initially, I was consumed by fear, anxious that the curiosity of understanding my elusive masculinity would leave me feeling fragmented, alone, and lost. But from our first meeting, those fears melted away, replaced by an undeniable bond. I realized I wasn’t alone in my pursuit to unearth the strength and depth of my hidden masculinity. The men in this group provided a powerful, open, and safe space for healing and validation. While my journey isn’t over, I now stand tall, knowing my masculinity is a treasure, not a secret. This program, and the exceptional men I’ve met, have been my anchors. I’ve found brothers worldwide, and I’m certain they see me the same way.

Long live Trinitas and the King within that has been revealed!”

“I initially discovered the profound work of Bas in the midst of a divine time in my life. A time of confusion, of searching for answers, a litany of failed relationships, in turmoil in my current one for my lack of skillset, understanding and fitness in relating. But at its core the question..

What is it to be a man?

And I didn’t know. I mean I knew performative. Hell on my worst days, toxic. Shaped by destructive societal norms, intergenerational emotional unavailability and childhood trauma along with a lack of healthy masculinity in my life historically. 

Combined with private session work and support, TRINITAS was an immersed transformative experience, breath taking for scope, life changing in outcome. 

I implore any and every man seeking more. More understanding. More love. More community. Choose yourself. Choose TRINITAS. Choose a space and incredible community that will nurture and nourish your deepest sensitivity and vulnerability. The opportunity to work with an epic human in Bas who will shepherd, guide, teach and love the shit out of you with depth of knowledge, experience, compassion and kindness. Delve and explore healthy masculinity in all it’s forms and intricacies. Share your rawest truth in safety and support.

Receive this gift.

I got to roar in my Warrior. Tenderly hold and be held in my Lover. Stand strong and unapologetic in truth in my benevolent King. Energetically connect my head, heart and balls. Ultimately to integrate and embody my healthy masculine in authenticity and full expression 

I humbly bow in gratitude to Bas and the men of Trinitas for this journey we share.”

“I’ve struggled with committing myself, procrastinating, self sabotage, and all the like. My initial reaction was to turn away from this thing that I knew on a deep level would challenge these ways of being and all of the stories and beliefs associated with them. What I didn’t realize was how many things I took for granted as being true about myself that would be turned upside down.

From our first meditation together I realized that this process was going to be big. I felt an immense and unwavering love, a man who knew and lived exactly who he was, a man who simultaneously loved me exactly as I was, and was calling me home to a life of greater purpose and authenticity.

As the weeks rolled on I was surprised again and again to find pieces of myself that I had shoved in a box as toxic, dangerous, or just not for me. Pieces that I began playing with and integrating, feeling the excitement and liberation of energy that comes with embracing a part of myself that had long been in exile. Tapping into these archetypal energies and aligning them with my head, heart, and balls, was like discovering I have the justice league or the avengers at my disposal at any time.

This toolkit alone would have been an invaluable addition to my life, but on top of that I also met an amazing group of men. Men who I genuinely respect, admire, and emulate. Men who will continue to be my friends and brothers long after the end of this program. Not least among them was our fearless leader, Bas. 

Bas has a beautiful way about him. A steady loving presence, a spaciousness to hold a container, to allow everyone to feel seen, supported, encouraged, and important. His beautiful heart right on his sleeve, not flaunting a false sense of enlightened perfection, but rather owning the beauty of his own imperfection. A man who knows the many faces of himself, makes space for them all, and offers through his example, the courage to live a life of your own that is wholly unique and inspired by deep purpose.

 I am finding that the spectrum of myself within still keeps on growing more each day, and I know it will be an awesome journey living all that I choose, with full permission to be me.”

“TRINITAS is a container of love in which everything about being a man is welcome and can be explored without judgement.  From going flat on your face to flying high. It’s all welcomed so that all the pieces can integrate. We worked with archetypes in which both the dark and the light pieces are celebrated.

The total package of being a man.”

“Thank you so much Bas, for being bold and brave enough to offer this work to men. You have created a powerful and safe container for us to share, cry, strengthen, and celebrate ourselves and each other.

I have explored and honed my masculinity more in the last two months than I have done in years. 

I highly, highly recommend TRINITAS to any man who wants to develop himself. Bas is able to use his wisdom and his personal experiences to profoundly relate to me and the other men and has shown me the beauty I had within (I could see it before, but his encouragement allowed me to fully embrace it.)

Thank you so much!!!!“

TRINITAS is a beautiful and incomparable setting yet.  What is unique is that everyone who participates is immediately completely there – and that this immediately creates a deepening brotherhood.  In a world full of absent fathers (you know “absent fathers – lost sons?”) that is exactly what is needed: a safe place supported by men – to seek foundation, authenticity, connection, warmth, love and authenticity, research, growth.

The sincere initiatives Bas takes and the setting he creates makes this safe container to explore our masculinity possible.